Sunday, January 12, 2014

Good manners are always a Guilty Pleasure

Usually the conversation in Guilty's Garden is very a positive discussion.We love promoting an opulent lifestyle, catering incredible parties and making new friends in the front row, Our blog's mission is to provide lots of good humor, a healthy respect for over-indulgence, a open forum for dicey situations, some daring adventure ideas, decadent travel suggestions and occasionally, some social commentary.

Today it's a societal rant.  Everyday Guilty fights a Battle Royale that I constantly lose.

No, it's not my weight, although that's a endless struggle of titanic proportions.

No, it's not business development. We consistently win that competition with a superior product and world class service.

No, it's not joy of being almost sixty years old in a youthful world. I continually savor each part of life's amazing journey.


It's the never ending assault on the human handshake of "Thank you" and "You're welcome." That exchange has been replaced at the retail counter by "Thank you" and the Slackerish response of "No Problem." I feel like saying,"Of course it's no problem, it 's your job to assist me with my checkout." This disinterested attitude is unfortunately a sign of our troubled times.  Yes, it's generational and yes, it's tragic.

Don't get me wrong, there is definitely an appropriate time to say "No problem."  For example, during a lunchtime delivery of our delicious food, someone thoughtfully holds the door open for me. I am most appreciative of their assistance and I quickly let them know how helpful they have been. "Thank you very much," I remark and they often reply "No problem." This is proper use of the "No problem" response. It was not their job to hold the door open, it was their sense of humanity. That interaction is always an uplifting moment.

Times change and language evolves, but giving respect is always a constant. Great manners and kind gestures are always a Guilty Pleasure.